gossip killsWitnessed a couple of uneventful happenings in the past week, from resignation of a fellow colleague to culling of lab mice to hearing about how people can assume my loved one to be liking another gal...
these have changed my perspective on life and impression of people some bit.
and made me wonder whose words to believe and if every action and idea can be justified.
I learnt that..in every situation, there hardly is anyone at fault, only people holding different sets of values, beliefs and priorities.
when values, opinions and priorities or even perceptions of people don't meet, misunderstandings occur, tensions build up and conflict arises.
take for example, people can assume that a guy who is already attached, likes another gal due to reasons such as talking to her more than others (in her group of friends) online etc...
do they even see how he behaves with his gf b4 assuming what he does are actions of courtship to another?
how can they apply what they themselves only believe to be actions of liking to another individual? everyone expresses love differently.
Don't they have other better things to do than to speculate about these matters that could eventually affect the guy, his gf or their r/s or even the friendship between the guy and the other gal?
Would they like it if their bf likes another gal or is believed by his friends to be so?
before people start gossiping on mindless issues that could harm or destroy others' friendships and relationships, they should first consider the consequences ahead.
age is no excuse.
when damage is done, will they be there to repair it?
