most of us act without questioning the driving force behind that action. this is fine, except in situations where another individual is involved.
A primary reason (although wrong one) for people entering into relationships is out of loneliness and the desire for a partner to be there as a comforting bolster for all of life's troubles and sorrows. they enter not to give to another but to take. even if one outwardly appears to give to his partner in the form of care, concern, hugs or kisses, could it be that he/she just wants reciprocation of his/her kind deeds? he/she gives with the expectation of receiving or in other words, with the end in mind. Only true love encompasses whole-hearted giving without expectation of how he/she can benefit from this. How many of us can achieve this? Shall i say none?
Hence, all humanly relationships are symbiotic in nature.
Intentions of starting a relationship maybe selfish. Nevertheless, relationships nurture people (at least they are supposed to), teaching one to love, to bear, to understand, to adapt, to listen, to speak with tactfulness. Unwanted side effects would be to cry, to exprience loss, to hate, to fear. Only in letting go, are the adverse side effects minimized.
In every process started, there is always the exit strategy and point. proper strategizing would prevent great loss on both sides and ensure that later on, another new relationship can be started without hints of any past failures.
